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Bad Boy Vs Nice Man - Does Attraction Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?
Well, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.
I think there are other personality factors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.
Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am interested in them or just being good.
That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without stating a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also remember that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet people like that. So regardless of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are dull there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the party.
The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will realize that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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